Saturday, August 16, 2014

A flashback moment -- Vicky Beeching comes out

Vicky Beeching. The name might not sound all that familiar to you, but when I saw her name in my news feed this week, my world paused…in a good way. She was a quick link back to my former days.

While there are many things I do not miss about the religious world, I sometimes miss the music and the worship times if I’m honest. Everyone has their thing that brings them peace and music has always been mine. During worship, I would be carried away, seemingly far from my cares, doubts, and misgivings, and my soul was comforted. Along with my role as youth minister, I spent a large portion of my ministry years on the worship team. I would throw myself into learning every single element of each song and play them with all the passion within on Sunday mornings.

Having placed distance between myself and those experiences, I now feel that it was the musical experience that was my refuge more than the act of worship. I have the same euphoric experience when I listen to The Phantom of the Opera, John Legend, and yes, even Idina Menzel’s Let It Go. (Don’t judge!) I am moved to the depths of my being by certain music and lyrics; I am moved by the raw emotion that lies within some songs.

What does this have to do with Vicky Beeching? In the height of my worship team career, Vicky Beeching was one of the songwriters leading the way out of England. She wrote touching songs about her relationship with God. Her songs held that element of honesty that moves me. In short, she was one of my favs.  This week, she came out publicly with a story that feels so familiar, yet is uniquely hers. She told of humiliating experiences as she tried to rid herself of this unwanted (thanks to rubbish teachings), bouts of self-hatred, and the toll that hiding one’s true self will eventually take on a soul.

I was quite surprised and I can imagine the surprise that is rippling through worship teams at this moment. The dilemma? Beeching penned many of the most popular songs sung in contemporary churches today. Through her lyrics she brought people to a side of God that is loving, forgiving, and kind. She is loved among many of the contemporary worship teams of today, but a portion of these Christians will feel the need to write her off because of her newly exposed life of sin. The boycott buzz is already 'buzzin'. But I see a bright side: another face within the Christian circle that is already known, loved, and respected has come out. With each new face, it becomes harder to justify the unfounded and, quite frankly, worn-out stance against homosexuality. Another soul has stood up to the illogical and misguided teachings within the Church and that soul has said, enough, I am through hiding who I am. She wants to be truly and freely herself as she continues to worship her God.


Bravo and peace to her and to all the other souls who are tired of hiding. Equality makes this a better world for us all.


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